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Son to Cops: 'Daddy Killed My Mommy' (Updated)

Bahaa Sam beat his wife with a weightlifting curling bar as their 4-year-old son watched, Will County prosecutors claimed at the Tinley Park man's hearing. Sam is charged with first-degree murder and is being held on $5 million bail.

 

UPDATED: 7:27 p.m. Thursday, Dec. 20

A Tinley Park man beat his wife with a weightlifting curling bar Wednesday as their 4-year-old son watched, Will County prosecutors said Thursday at a hearing for the 47-year-old man.

Bahaa A. Sam was charged with first-degree murder in the death of his wife, Nermeen Gamal Sam, 38. An autopsy report stated she was hit in the head more than 10 times. Bahaa Sam is being held on a $5 million bail.

READ: Husband Charged With Murder in Wife's Death in Brookside Glen

If Sam posts bond, which is $500,000, he must turn in his American and Egyptian passports to the Will County Sheriff's Office. His next court date is Jan. 11.

"If he walks out those jail doors, I want those passports," said Judge Roger Rickmon.

'Is She Dead,' Bahaa Sam Asks Police

Tinley Park Police responded at about 11:30 a.m. Wednesday, Dec. 19, to an ambulance call to the home in the 19700 block of Silverside Drive, a police press release stated. A Tinley Park public works employee had spotted Nermeen Sam's body next to a tree outside and called 911, Chief Steve Neubauer said.

When officers arrived at the scene, they found Nermeen Sam face down in the grass, covered in blood, prosecutors said. Police also reported blood spatters on the sidewalk and driveway, as well as a pool of blood on the grass. The curling bar was on the ground next to the body, prosecutors said.

The first person officers encountered when they entered the Sam home was the couple's 4-year-old son. According to prosecutors, the boy, whose face and clothing had blood spatters, told police, "Daddy killed my mommy."

Police then saw Bahaa Sam, who also had blood on his clothing and skin, prosecutors.

"Are you taking her to the hospital? Is she dead?" Bahaa Sam asked officers, according to prosecutors.

READ: Woman Dead in Possible Domestic Incident (Updated)

In an interview with police, Bahaa Sam said Wednesday's incident started with an argument over the fact that he was unemployed. Nermeen Sam went to leave the house, and Bahaa Sam tried to stop her before she bit his finger, drawing blood, prosecutors said.

He then chased her outside with the curling bar, while the 4-year-old son followed, according to prosecutors. Bahaa Sam told police he hit her once in the head, and she fell, adding that he hit her a second time after that.

However, an autopsy report by the Will County Coroner's Office stated she was hit more than 10 times.

A History of Domestic Violence

According to the Will County Circuit Court website and prosecutors, Bahaa Sam was charged with misdemeanor domestic battery, which was reduced to battery, in June of this year. An emergency protective order against him also was filed that same month by Nermeen Sam and the couple's four children, records indicate. That order was dropped in July, and the domestic battery charge was reduced, according to court records.

Bahaa Sam also was charged with misdemeanor domestic battery and resisting a police officer in October 2005, according to Will County Circuit Court records. He was found not guilty on the domestic battery charge and guilty on the charge of resisting an officer, court records state.

Bahaa Sam's Reactions in Court

Bahaa Sam's hearing Thursday was fraught with interruptions by the defendant and a delay while Judge Roger Rickmon tried to find an Arabic interpreter for Sam.

Originally, Sam was to appear at his hearing via closed-circuit TV from the Will County Jail. But he couldn't hear the interpreter the court arranged for him by speaker phone, and Rickmon ordered him brought to the courtroom. Once there, the court continued to use an interpreter over speaker phone.

Rickmon, however, was skeptical Sam did not understand or speak English after the defendant answered at least one of the judge's questions.

"Just so the record's clear, I don't think he needs an interpreter," Rickmon said.

Sam interrupted proceedings at several points to ask questions or dispute facts surrounding the case, speaking partly in Arabic, partly in English at times. When a prosecutor read information about his 4-year-old witnessing the beating, Sam broke in twice, saying "Not Right" in Arabic and, "He's 4-years-old," in English.

Rickmon, through the interpreter, told Sam he needed to stop interjecting and that he could discuss matters later with his lawyer, advising him that his remarks were being recorded and could be used against him. Sam did not interrupt after that and spoke to the judge only to ask why he had to turn in his passports if he posted bond.

"I don't want you to leave the country until this case's resolved," Rickmon said.

 

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Related Topics: Bahaa Sam, Domestic Violence, Murder Charge, Nereem Gamel Sam, and Tinley Park Police Department

TP Karen

5:11 pm on Thursday, December 20, 2012

How very sad for that little boy. Bahaa Sam is not human - he is an animal ! May he burn in hell for what he has done.

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Tena Abdallah

2:37 am on Monday, December 24, 2012

I agree! The courts should beat him to death! Any man that beats up on a women is a damn coward!!

S.Pike

6:45 pm on Thursday, December 20, 2012

absolutely disgusting piece of crap

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Sharon Bostik

9:36 pm on Thursday, December 20, 2012

Should get the Death Penalty just for doing it in front of the little boy. Now the little boy will need counciling for the rest if his life.

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TP Resident

12:17 am on Friday, December 21, 2012

He says "Not right he's 4 years old". What's not right is killing your wife let alone letting your 4 year witness this. So sad that this woman had to live through such hell and have her death be so traumatic. He is not a man he is a monster! Poor kids!

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Lisa Markiewicz

12:17 am on Friday, December 21, 2012

Sick sick sick man. And how dare us as a community. There is not one card tetty bear nothing on her lawn to are sorrow for this great loss. But i will be the tomorrow. Dame these people in tinley. If someone she didnt know did this o her there ould be tons of things on the lawn to represent what happened to her. But nothing there today.... Wow

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NL Resident

9:13 am on Friday, December 21, 2012

There is so much truth in your comment. Sad.

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Jill

9:13 am on Friday, December 21, 2012

We understand Lisa. But did you ever stop to think how the homeowners might feel that this poor woman was found in THEIR yard? You don't know what they are feeling, so please don't make a shrine out of someone else's personal space. And I mean no disrespect against the lady that died when I say this.

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BIKERX

9:13 am on Friday, December 21, 2012

So Lisa, you measure grief and sadness by the amount of trinkets people scatter ?? Your values need to be reviewed. My question is...where is the little boy now ?

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TP Resident

9:38 am on Friday, December 21, 2012

Buy a couple of nice teddy bears for the kids. But to go stick some old garbage on somebody's lawn isn't right. I am sure they are having a hard enough time. Making a shrine is not a way to show you care. I personally find it to be trashy after a while. Some of these shrines around Tinley are a bit much. If you put stuff in my yard I would remove it immediately.

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Linda

11:46 am on Friday, December 21, 2012

Teddy Bears make everything better.

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Bob Laird

12:14 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012

I always felt that putting a shrine where someone died was odd. Why not put one where they lived and laughed and loved?

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Kenny Banya

2:49 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012

This is just an odd comment. Why all these makeshift "shrines?" I don't get it. Is it only for people meeting a violent end? What about the guy who keels over on the sidewalk from stress-where is his shrine? It's like when people thought there was a picture of a weeping Virgin Mary on a viaduct in Chicago, and they closed off the street because of all the junk scattered on the sidewalk. The water was coming from the elevated train tracks and the vision was a grease stain.

A Neighbor

9:13 am on Friday, December 21, 2012

I'm planning to contact the church and school district to get a gift card to the children. Although memorials at the spot are thoughtful, I think practical gifts might be more helpful at this time. Please try not to bring any more negativity and anger to the situation, even though I'm sure you mean well. There's far to much strife in the world as it is.

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Connie

9:13 am on Friday, December 21, 2012

My heart breaks for her children, especially that 4 year old little boy. What was that father thinking! What this poor family has endured is gut wrenching. Life is such a precious thing and to be taken in this way is horrible. I hope these children find peace and the strength to get through this, and I hope they have family and friends that will help. This poor mother did everything for her family. This man should rot. For those that read this, take a moment and pray for this family and the loss of their mother.

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ML

9:13 am on Friday, December 21, 2012

He is a disgusting excuse for a man, and god watch over his kids. However to damn the people in tinley for not putting teddy bears on the lawn is a little petty. You dont know if the neighbors have reached out to the family personally to give any assistance. A teddy bear won't bring their mother back. This guy should be locked up without bail and for the simple fact he asked why he should turn in his passport is a clue he was gonna leave if he got out.

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Connie

9:21 am on Friday, December 21, 2012

The school district summit hill 161 will be setting up a fund for the family. Consider donating to that.

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Cindy

11:46 am on Friday, December 21, 2012

And He won..this poor excuse of a husband and a human..he won the fight and taught her a lesson right? He's the man..old boy Quinn made sure that a piece of trash like this will ultimately have the upper hand.. Ya, he'll sit in jail for the rest of his life..but, at least he gets to see his kids..so..it's not too bad for him. He really showed her who was boss.. Makes me sick to think this poor excuse of a being will get to live and see his kids again..Thanks Quinn! One more worthless looser rotting in jail and we get to pay for him... makes me sick to my stomach.

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Denise Du Vernay

5:01 pm on Saturday, December 22, 2012

Cindy, I feel sick to my stomach, too. But it's the crime that makes me sick. What point in blaming Gov. Quinn here? Why make this a partisan issue? It's not. Really, now, Gov. Ryan (a Republican) called for the moratorium on the death penalty in this state 12 years ago and Gov. Quinn finally signed it into law. But regardless, would having the death penalty have deterred this man from killing his wife? No one can know for sure, but probably not. This miserable monster being allowed to live may be distasteful but is it worth it to NOT kill innocent people. An innocent convict can be set free when the mistake is realized, but a dead person cannot be returned home.

another mom

2:06 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012

Cindy, I don't think anybody won. And while I truly understand the "he does not deserve to live" mentality, I also don't believe any one of us have the right to take a life. I can't support the death penalty because carrying out a sentence just makes someone else among us a killer.

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Mike

2:07 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012

I agree it was a terrible thing what happend. However what is equally is sick is you guys using a 4 year olds report to get attention. This child and his other family members are going through a hard enough time. They don't need that all off the Internet. Have some class.

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Eegypt man

2:49 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012

poor kids!! poor wife!! may God bless them

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Enas

6:35 pm on Friday, December 21, 2012

Our mind cannot understand ,our heart feels sad for your loss.we will miss you Nermeen.god never likes what happens to u ,but he always has a better plan for us.our heartfelt prayers go out to your kids.you will always be remembered in our hearts and prayers.

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Mike Menias

12:53 am on Saturday, December 22, 2012

St. George has opened a donation account for the children through BMO Harris Bank. Donations to the Sam Family Fund can be made at any Harris Bank location. The account number is 4812855233.

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lynie

4:44 pm on Friday, January 11, 2013

I can't believe someone can be so violent to a woman he loved and chose to marry. Also, to think that this has been going on for so long. God will heal those injured but can't bring there mother back. God help this world in which we live and help us follow Jesus who teaches us how to love one another.

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