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Burros Ban on Pink Has a Lot of People Talking

You see a lot of pink on the football field for Breast Cancer Awareness month. But not on the boys who play youth football in Mokena. A clueless call? Or overreaction?

 

The boys who play tackle football for the Mokena Burros can no longer garb themselves in shades of pink if they want to remain on the gridiron. So says Burros Athletic Director Sal Della Fave.

In an e-mail at the onset of Breast Cancer Awareness Month to his players and coaches, Della Fave laid down the law: Only small, pink stickers can be affixed to helmets. "This is the only approved addition to our uniform," he wrote. "No other pink item is to be added to the uniform ie. socks, laces, duct tape etc. I am holding each of you accountable to ensure compliance."

Patch's story about the decision and the ensuing displeasure felt by moms prompted much conversation among Patch's south suburban Facebook fans and followers of Patch sites. 

Here's what they had to say:

"It's unfortunate that someone in a position of power can make a decision that affects some of us so very deeply. It sounds as though Sal just doesn't recognize the fact that some of the players in his league have the hearts and minds to care deeply about the women in their lives. I commend the players that had the gumption to stand up for what they believe and am embarrassed for Sal." — David DeVos, Mokena Patch commenter

"I think instead of wearing pink, make a donation instead. Football players wearing pink does nothing but distract them. For what it's worth, my mom is a 12-year breast cancer survivor." — Deborah Lynn, Palos Patch Facebook

"Yes, wearing pink is more symbolic but in some small way the kids feel like they are doing something. My boys play for the Frankfort Falcons and if they had the same rule, I would make sure to tell all the parents to wear as much pink as possible and make them disqualify the whole team. It's a horrible rule by their Athletic Director. What's the harm?" — Jim Belavich, Tinley Park Patch Facebook

"Have you seen college football uniforms? if anything those uniforms are distractions. It's not like the players are wearing pink to alter the game or cheat by distraction, It's supporting a notable cause, a good cause." — Matt Friesser, Tinley Park Patch Facebook

"I'm going to play devil's advocate here. I suffer from a disease that is not cancer but just as nasty. It's not trendy, nor popular. There are no athletes wearing ANY color for my disease. By the way, I am female. There are times when I resent 'pink' even though I know that is a non-productive emotion. I like the comment about donating. If the athletes are so into helping, then hold a fundraiser and support someone in the community who suffers from cancer or any other disease. That would be a great deal more helpful than just putting on pink socks. ... The youth football community is a caring one and I'm sure the parents and kids can come up with something to replace pink socks. How about all the proceeds from the split the pot be donated to cancer awareness from one week's worth of games?" — Pretty in Pink, Mokena Patch commenter

"Why not donate instead of wearing pink? Everyone is "aware". Let's actually do something about it now." — Joe Franks, Tinley Park Patch Facebook

"Have the football team collect donations while wearing pink. People can wear as much pink as they want, but it's the funding and research that is needed to find a cure. (If they can narrow down a cause, wouldn't it then be easier to find a cure?)" — Inga Balzaras-Rzeszutko, Palos Patch Facebook

"(Sal) must be a lucky man never knowing anyone who has fought this terrible disease. I can't imagine why he wouldn't support and show compassion for those who continue to fight!" — Joe Calzaretta, Beverly-Mount Greenwood Patch Facebook

"Every sport, college and pro wear pink. When i was in the service, we wore pink." — Ken Crosby, Oak Lawn Patch Facebook

"He probably has never met a person struggling with the disease or a survivor. He must be heartless." — Amy Biedermann Rascop, Beverly Mount-Greenwood Patch

"I think the Burros Athletic Director is clueless." — Carol Budz, Orland Park Patch Facebook

"This is about saving lives, not the coach's inability to be a man. ... Real men wear pink proudly!!" — Dave Bagus, Oak Lawn Patch Facebook

"ARE YOU KIDDING ME? There has to be more to this RIGHT??? My son played flag and I am glad they didn't interfere because I would have been one irate mom out there if they limited these boys. GO BURROS. I WOULD FIND MORE INFO OUT AND FIGHT FOR A LITTLE MORE PINK IN THE UNIFORM FOR OCTOBER! — Darlene Kruse, Mokena Patch commenter
 

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About this column: Dennis Robaugh, editor of Patch's south suburban region, blogs on the news and links you to the Southland's must-read stories. Related Topics: Breast Cancer Awareness Month, Facebook, Mokena Burros, and Sal Della Fave

TQ

8:14 am on Thursday, October 18, 2012

Political correctness out of control. Why just breast cancer? How many of these boys are going to get breast cancer (yes, I know there are cases of it in men). Why not something that makes more sense ? Why not prostate cancer ? How about something that affects both genders on a larger scale ? Colon/Rectal cancer ? Lung cancer ? Why even cancer ? Why not diabetes ?

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pepper

8:53 am on Thursday, October 18, 2012

Right on TQ! There are literally hundreds of diseases and cancers to be "aware" of.There should be a universal color for cancer awareness in general

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Ron Kremer

9:31 am on Thursday, October 18, 2012

I've spotted high school coaches and players wearing pink for the last three weeks to mark the breast cancer awareness drive. One boy said to me, "Almost everybody on the team knows somebody affected by breast cancer." That hit home. Wear pink, be proud.

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tmarc75

9:52 am on Thursday, October 18, 2012

It is sad that this is even an issue.

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Ron Kremer

10:04 am on Thursday, October 18, 2012

tmarc75: Agreed. It's not like coaches and players here are somehow tainting their jerseys. The pink I've seen has been wore in a tasteful manner. And, if it helps raise awareness, then it's a good thing.

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Dorothy

10:37 am on Thursday, October 18, 2012

To "Pretty in Pink" - I feel so much better knowing I lost half of my breast, and am going to endure hot flashes, night sweats, mood swings, and bone pain for the next five years while on medication, due to a "trendy and popular" disease. What an ignorant comment.

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John Paul

10:47 am on Thursday, October 18, 2012

A commenter in the article made a point about having a disease that is "less trendy or popular" and I get that. Here's the thing, breast cancer affects 1 in 8 women. One in eight. Think about that for a minute. If you're a guy, how many women in your life mean something to you; your mom, wife, sisters, daughters. Do you like those odds? If you're a woman, that's you and seven others. Sadly, there is a good chance that breast cancer will, in some way, affect most, if not all of us.

The point of Breast Cancer Awareness is not just about finding a cure, but it also serves as a reminder to get a mammogram and self examine because early detection is so critical.

The wearing of pink does another thing, too. It lets all those who are affected by this terrible disease know that they are not alone and that so many people are thinking of them. And that's more important than you might think.

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Margaret Johansen

12:21 pm on Thursday, October 18, 2012

I think that Breast Cancer Awareness is certainly important but "pretty in pink" does have a point! Does anyone know that October is also Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month, I doubt it. Sometimes, I think it would be nice if other causes & diseases were given some attention too!!

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Darnell

12:23 pm on Thursday, October 18, 2012

It's an organizational decision by the AD. He is acknowledging the cause yet is keeping it in perspective. There are plenty of other illnesses that should receive equal acknowledgement but don't. If the parents choose to load the spectator stands dressed in pink so be it,,do it. He makes the calls for the organization,,not the parents. My perspective, if you dislike his decision that much, pull your son from the program and enroll him in another. Quit whining!

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Mike F.

12:44 pm on Thursday, October 18, 2012

Instead of doing saber-rattling BS like the NFL (which is generating a boatload of money selling pink merchandise and only a fraction is actually being donated to charity), how about having a fundraiser and donating the money?

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Upscale

1:53 pm on Thursday, October 18, 2012

Wearing pink is good as long as you mean it, there are people who wear pink only to be "cool" and would like it if certain people would get the disease and die

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EMM

2:26 pm on Thursday, October 18, 2012

My apologies then Upscale, I read your post to mean that YOU would like it if certain people would get the disease and die. I agree that there are many ignorant people in the world that only get pleasure by bringing people down. Sad really but such is life. I really wish more people would show love for their fellow man than always trying to bring them down, good luck to you!

EMM

2:07 pm on Thursday, October 18, 2012

Upscale? Really? More like classless lowlife if you ask me. I have a few people in my life who are dealing with this horrible disease and they are struggling everyday. I hope that this does not touch your life as it has mine but if and when it does I hope you remember the ignorant comment you posted. So stupid!!

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Upscale

2:20 pm on Thursday, October 18, 2012

It is far better to help out with such a worthy cause , unfortunately i also know people who have had to come to terms with cancer and other horrible diseases i have also overheard on the street garbage like 'he/she deserved it'. what do you say to them besides help us find a cure

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Upscale

4:24 pm on Thursday, October 18, 2012

While you were busy badmouthing on the internet i was doing a colon cancer test - 4 vials and 4 specimens by the way the last time i had to deal with a disease i overheard someone actually say what'd they do rape a nun

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EMM

4:30 pm on Thursday, October 18, 2012

I apologized because I miss read your comment. I wished you good luck as well and I certainly hope your test come back clean. If it makes you feel better to continue to bash me go ahead. Perhaps your anger is better spent on all the people you overhear making these sick vile comments, it certainly wasn't me.

Upscale

2:10 pm on Thursday, October 18, 2012

Pink power rules, and so do the people fighting for a cure to a horrible disease like breast cancer and all other cancers !!

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Carin

3:07 pm on Thursday, October 18, 2012

I have a question. What is wearing pink going to do?

Personally, I do not own a single item of pink (except my kickboxing gloves and it's only because pink is all they sell for women). I do not like to color pink. Pink really is not my color. I do own a bracelet that I purchased from Brighton with proceeds going to breast cancer research. However, since I don't wear jewelry at all, it usually collects dust outside of once or twice a year.
So if I choose to not wear pink does that mean I am pro breast cancer? No. It means, I'd rather give $15 to breast cancer research than to purchase something so a stranger will know where I stand on cancer.

Considering each cancer (and you can look them all up) have their own color ribbon, I guess if we aren't wearing every color of every cancer then we must not care about people who have or had or lost the battle to these cancers?

This is getting to be silly. The coach did allow a pink sticker on the helmets. He made a decision to keep his team focused on the game and not who will be wearing more pink on the field.
In my short time on this planet, I have known numerous people of both genders who currently have, or had or have lost the battle to cancer. Is wearing pink going to do anything to them? Or is it better my money and energy be spent on finding a cure?

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Traci Summers

12:19 pm on Friday, October 19, 2012

I just want to add that I am a parent of an Oak Lawn football player. Our organization decided to uniformly purchase PINK JERSEYS for October with portions of the cost of the jerseys going towards breast cancer research-- as many of the pink items sold in October are. So, this is not an issue of "not liking the color" or "trying to be trendy" this is an issue of our boys -actually- supporting a cause that affects a great number of them.

Why not?

6:47 pm on Thursday, October 18, 2012

The question : what is wearing pink going to do? Well, first of all it shows support to a cause close to many people. Second, it's about education... What a better place to start educating and talking to our youth about a disease that will eventually hit home for many of them. No one is saying they don't support other diseases, October is breast cancer awareness month... Why not be able to show support even if it is wearing some pink ? Since children don't generally donate to causes or have the money or resources to do so ,this could have been a great opportunity for them to become aware and help them understand that youth sports is not the end all be all.

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Carin

9:27 pm on Thursday, October 18, 2012

Why not? Wearing pink doesn't show support to a cause. It shows you like the color pink and think it works for you. Wearing the pink ribbon is showing support. When I see someone in pink, I don't think "they must support breast cancer cure" I think "they like pink"

The children are aware of it by wearing a pink ribbon sticker on their helmet. As a child of Catholic School and uniforms we would not be allowed to wear anything that would change the uniform. I am sure the school would allow a pink ribbon or carry pink bag/purse but we would not be allowed to wear pink sweatshirt or shirt or change our uniform. Football is the same way.

Mary Carumba

7:22 pm on Thursday, October 18, 2012

You have to remember that these are kids and they tend to carry things to extremes sometimes. They were still given a chance to express their support by wearing the pink stickers. They were never told they couldn't support Breast Cancer Awareness month. They are just being asked to keep it under control.

It's unfortunate that a bottom of the barrel writer(?) like this clown Robaugh chose to attack this man by sensationalizing this story.

Robaugh wears lots of pink every day. The top of his fat head.

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Carin

9:31 pm on Thursday, October 18, 2012

Mary - you are exactly right. Although it seems the parents want to carry this to the extremes.

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Ed

4:42 am on Friday, October 19, 2012

I have to agree with you 100 percent on this.

Why not?

7:44 pm on Thursday, October 18, 2012

They weren't asked anything.. They were told if you wear pink you will not play. I'm sure the adult coaches could have made sure that there were limits set. So, they were not given a chance to express their support . If you saw the pink sticker you were probably one of the only people because they are not even noticeable to the naked eye. Bottom line... One person squashed a good opportunity.

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Ed

4:41 am on Friday, October 19, 2012

You need to get a life. They were given a chance to support the cause in a controlled manner. Do you want them to wear all pink uniforms?

lala

9:09 pm on Thursday, October 18, 2012

October is also: Domestic Violence Awareness Month, Eye Injury Prevention Month, Health Literacy Month, Home Eye Safety Month, National Breast Cancer Awareness Month, National Bullying Prevention Month, National Down Syndrome Awareness Month, National Physical Therapy Month,
National Medical Librarians Month,Stop America's Violence Everywhere (SAVE) Today, and Sudden Infant Death Syndrome Awareness Month.

I would not wish illness, cancer, death or any of the above on anyone. If wearing a splash of pink on the uniforms will remind one woman that she needs to have exams, I don't see a problem with it. However, it is a "uniform" and it is Fave's call. I can see not wanting all the boys wearing different shades of pink and articles of clothing. Maybe the parents and coaches can come to an agreement on something for next year.

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Mike F.

12:08 am on Friday, October 19, 2012

It's also National Leukemia & Lymphoma Awareness Month. The Leukemia and Lymphoma Society is having their big fundraiser, the Light The Night Walk, this Saturday.

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Carin

9:41 am on Sunday, October 21, 2012

So if every team shows up in pink jerseys how will some of the kids determine who's on their team? Do you even know the amount of turnovers that will happen thanks to everyone wears pink?

Cathy Crawford

8:35 am on Sunday, October 21, 2012

Who doesn't want to wear the ribbon?!!

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