Will County HELPS Symposium on Heroin Scores Big with Parents
Part I: Between 450-500 people packed Lincoln-Way Central High School to participate in Will County HELPS, a symposium on heroin and the trail of devastation it leaves behind. The number of fatalities due to drug overdoses has rise from five in 2009 to
From teens to grandparents, a judge, a doctor and law enforcement along with Will County and Village officials, one after the other stood Thursday to talk about a tragedy of epidemic proportions. More than 450 people packed Lincoln-Way Central High School's Lee F. Rosenquist Auditorium for the Will County HELPS Symposium on Heroin.
In the aftermath of the tragic death of at least three teens in New Lenox in the past year, Mayor Tim Baldermann teamed up with village law enforcement officials to organize the Will County HELPS (Heroin Education Leads to Preventative Solutions) symposium, which featured an hour-long resource fair before the formal presentation.
This community forum is a response to what has become a "public health crisis," agreed the eight official speakers and many in the crowd who later shared personal perspectives, heart-wrenching testimonies and commentary. Obviously stirred by the stories of lives in crises, the number of comments and questions stretched the symposium for another hour. It lasted from 7 p.m.-10 p.m.
A duo of fathers from nearby Homer Glen, John Robertson, a retired Chicago police captain, and Brian Kirk, joined forces after their teen-age sons, both of whom attended Lockport Township High School, lost their lives due to heroin overdoses. Representatives from the fathers' outreach organization, which is called HERO (Heroin Epidemic Relief Organization,) manned a table at the resource fair. They chatted casually or seriously, depending on the approaching individual, about the devastation and widespread availability of heroin.
Presentations and Conversations Revealed the Depth of the Problem
Chicago and Boston are the two "epicenters" in the nation for heroin, said Roberts, who spoke after Baldermann's introduction. Heroin recognizes no social class, race, creed or boundaries, he said. It's more than willing to accept all comers. It's no longer relegated to the dark, dangerous spots in major urban areas. It's at the shopping mall, the school parking lot and on the playground.
"These were just good, every day kids from suburbia" that caught up in heroin, said Roberts.
"We're trying to erase the stigma" associated with addictions, added Marie Anderson of HERO.
During the presentation, Roberts said the problem of heroin addiction has become "epidemic." The purpose for speaking out, he said, is to make people aware. "I know there's nothing that I can do to bring back my Billy. I'm here tonight to ask for your help. …because not enough people are talking about it."
When someone dies of a drug overdose, it's news. "But on average four, five and six kids a month are transferred to emergency rooms" in Will County, and no one hears about that. "We can never measure the harm that families are suffering because of this drug."
A Recovering Heroin Addict Shares Her Story
Identifying herself as Danielle H., currently of Libertyville, she shared how she got swept into the heroin addiction. It was easily available and her friends introduced her to it when she was a student at Wilmington High School. Within six months of using, she was arrested and her family bailed her out. Two days later, she was back using again. "From there it went downhill."
The addiction got so bad that she gave up everything, including relationships, food and even hygiene. All that mattered was getting the drug. "The drug changes you. It changes your brain," she said. After her second arrest, she was faced with imprisonment or the Will County Drug Court program. After witnessing the success that some of her fellow prisoners were experiencing in the program, she decided that "getting clean and sober" was something she wanted.
She was in jail for six months, "but that's what I needed. ...I've been clean and sober for 18 months," she boasted. Still, it's a battle. "I had to move away from my family and friends. …That's what you have to do; stay away from the familiar places."
Her speech ended with a standing ovation from the crowd.
Will County Health Department's Dr. Joe Troiani Details the Tell-Tale Signs of Heroin Addiction
Before Troiani presented information about the signs and symptoms of a heroin addict, he talked about his niece and her battle with heroin. He talked about his work with veterans after the Viet Nam war. People frequently are in denial, he said. That's because parents conjure images in their head of someone using dirty needles and looking for the dealer in dingy places.
It's not like that anymore. Kids can get the drugs in their own hometowns. It is still injected, but it's also snorted so there aren't any needle marks.
The tell-tale signs are weight loss, difficulty breathing and unexplained sleepiness. Each symptom is bad, he said, but it's the sleepiness that frequently escapes notice. "That's how kids die. Their friends think they're just falling asleep, but then they never wake up."
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Terrence Walker
8:56 am on Friday, September 28, 2012
I think it's awesome we open a dialoge about this plague that is creeping into our community. Parents- if you even THINK your kid is touching this crap- get them REAL help- like Hazelton or Sierra Tucson help IMMEDIATELY or you might find yourself booking funeral arrangements. There are no'casual users'.
Did Will County Sheriff ever 'find' the 40,000 doses of smack they 'lost' from that storage shed ? I never did hear anything else about that screw-up.
http://articles.chicagotribune.com/2011-10-20/news/ct-met-evidence-stolen-20111020_1_drug-thefts-heroin-overdose
Dede
9:38 am on Friday, September 28, 2012
From personal experience, let them know you still love them and are there for them. It may not work at first, but eventually, it makes a difference. Gateway in Lake Villa is great. Also don't keep bailing them out of jail. Give them a taste of the consequences. Tough love -yes -but most of them don't like that life style. Never give up hope.
Chris
10:19 am on Friday, September 28, 2012
You learn as a child not to steal. You learn as a child not to kill. You learn as a child not to things in life that you wouldn't want done to you. And thankfully most people reach adulthood without doing wrong. For the life of me, I cannot see why anyone would want to even start taking a drug that will eventually ruin your life and possibly the lives of those around you. I lack sympathy for those that do heroin willingly, just like I lack sympathy for those that steal, kill, and commit other crimes against people.
Dede
10:06 am on Saturday, September 29, 2012
I truly hope you never have to deal with heroin addiction in your family. There are no answers as to WHY? Self-esteem may be a reason for some, but yet those around the child have always been supportive and positive. Don't waste time trying to analyze WHY. Get help. Let the professionals help. It's a different world out there. Kids are different too. Face it and act. No one needs your sympathy-just your help and support.
wllangys
12:51 pm on Friday, September 28, 2012
John and all the Roberts famliy along with the kirk family are doing a GREAT JOB
Jill
1:05 pm on Friday, September 28, 2012
Here is the thing Chris,
Kids try and do stupid things all the time.
Some things amount to nothing,
other things change their life and the lives of those that love them.
No one can say as a teen that they did not make stupid mistakes.
We are just lucky enough that it wasn't a deadly mistake
Yes, as parents we teach right from wrong, but by the time you have teen all
you can do is pray & hope they don't make deadly choices.
They are after all, not in your control 24/7 as they were when they were little.
Ellen
4:27 pm on Friday, September 28, 2012
I attended this symposium last night and went straight home and sat down with my teens. It is so important to have this type of education in our community. We cannot bury our faces in the sand and pretend this is not occurring. I hope that Lincoln Way High School District will jump on board working with parents to educate and protect our children from all of these drugs, but especially heroin.
Tom Day
8:07 pm on Friday, September 28, 2012
Thank you to the police department for bringing this program to New Lenox. Ellen, you're so right to talk directly with your kids. Early detection and intervention may be the difference between life and death.
Donald L Brooks
10:27 am on Thursday, April 4, 2013
Donald Brooks I'm a recovering heroin addict that have about 15yrs of jail time,left for dead which led to me having 72 staples in my head.All for another hit of heroin, but that isn't where the problem came from. It started when I first was able to remember. unresolved anger, greif, and pain that i didn't know how to explain then that wasn't address, but lived in me all the way until I was an adult. So the kids problem isn't the drugs use that is just a symptom. So or those who want to help make a difference look at this. Go to youtube and put in donald brooks from darkness to light and see my life and Gods glory .I also do it live and share some simple steps that helped me. Allow me to try to impact some of the lives that are in darkness from and ex addict standpoint. I might not be able to save all of them ,but one is better than known(brooksdonald64@yahoo.com) It's not always a pill,jail,kick them out of school. It is about time and not money. Lets make a difference and not a dollar. If we don't take the time to listen with an understanding heart who will, that male or female with that bag or bottle.It will only turn them on in the begining,then later on turn on them.