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Football Anger 'Scary,' Hurting Kids, Park President Says

After an incident where he said he was accosted by a Mokena Burros official about the new Mokena Jr. Griffins youth football program, park district President Dennis Bagdon said a few angry people are taking attention away from the kids.

Mokena Park District President Dennis Bagdon said he's worried an incident last week where he said he was accosted by a Mokena Burros official is taking attention from where it should be—on the kids playing youth football.

He confirmed an account given by the SouthtownStar, which described an unnamed Burros board member yelling profanities at the president of the park district that, starting this summer, will rent fields to both groups.

"It's getting to the point where it's almost getting scary. I felt threatened last week," Bagdon told Patch on Tuesday. "It was inches away from physical violence."

He did not identify the official, but said the topic was the Mokena Jr. Griffins, a new youth football program coming to town.

A League of Their Own

For nearly 50 years, the Mokena Burros were the sole youth football program in Mokena. This changed recently with the formation of the Mokena Jr. Griffins.

Burros board President Joe Lentz, who was not the official alleged to have accosted Bagdon, declined to comment for this story.

Lentz told the SouthtownStar last week he was "very angry with the park district" because having a new football program was "impacting the lives of 600 kids" in Burros football, flag and cheer.

Bagdon said the new program should not hurt the Burros.

Between Main Park, Yunker Park and space off LaPorte and Schoolhouse roads, the park district has enough space for both programs, he said. When the Burros are home, the Jr. Griffins will be away and vice versa, he said.

"We've got enough space to put people," Bagdon said. "We're not worried about that."

Although the SouthtownStar reported Commissioner Jim Richmond is on the Jr. Griffins board, the park district does little more than rent the football fields and enforce the district's code of conduct, Executive Director Jim Romanek said.

"Our stance as the park district is we're just the facilitator for outside affiliate groups," Romanek said. "We're not going to get into that dispute."

Coach Pushed Player

A Burros coach last fall broke the park district's code of conduct by pushing a player to the ground and calling the child an insulting name, Bagdon confirmed.

"We worked it out and we moved forward," he said.

Jr. Griffins varsity coach George Metanias, who spent 15 years coaching for the Burros, said he and others have disagreed with current Burros leadership, but said rules about play time created the Jr. Griffins.

"It was a great organization," said Metanias, who is also a village board trustee. "We had some really good people running it in the past. I was part of helping the Burros build up. Unfortunately, over the last couple years things have changed, but that's not why we formed the Jr. Griffins."

The River Valley League, which includes the Jr. Griffins, the Frankfort Falcons, the New Lenox Jr. Warriors, the New Lenox Jr. Knights and eight other youth football, flag and cheer programs, allows heavier children to play "striper" or "double striper" positions with their age groups.

The league also offers a special "fifth quarter" and Wednesday games where children who might not otherwise be starters get to start, Metanias said.

"If people are happy where they're at, then they should stay where they're at. It's no big deal," Metanias said. "Nothing against the Burros, nothing against anyone else. It's just another choice."

Metanias said the new group is just another option for Mokena children who want to participate in football, flag and cheer without leaving town.

"If you have one restaurant in Mokena, can you say there can't be any other restaurants?" he said.

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A Long Time Mokena Resident February 22, 2012 at 02:28 pm
I really think that both sides need to grow up and think about the kids! This seems more like a power trip for adults all acting like children. Is it REALLY about the kids or just about a bunch of egos?
It's me... February 22, 2012 at 03:27 pm
Metro sexual farries? Really? That right there should tell your child life isn't fair because your judging and condeming someone else. And for what? A football league. I don't get it, is it really that serious? My husband and I were thinking of signing my son up for football this year. We've seen the sign for registration hanging by the park. But now, seeing this, I'm not so sure I want him to be a part of this sport. I'm not one of those parents or persons so heavily involved in sports, so this to me seems, well weird. I don't see the problem with having 2 football teams. Is it really that political and jaded that grown people resort to name calling and violence. Is that the tone the other parents set when their child is on or off the field? I'm sure there will be other parents such as myself, that are going to rethink putting their son on a team after seeing this.
Mokena mom February 22, 2012 at 04:11 pm
99.9% of the fathers in this town live their lives through their children, especially when it comes to sports. 99.9% of those fathers have never picked up a football, a baseball bat or any other type of sporting equipment. I am not a fan of Bagdon due to circumstances from the past relating to the Park District, but everyone has a right to start a new team. I have known of many kids that have quit the Burros football and cheer and gone to neighboring teams to play because of various issues. I don't see a problem with another football team being started, BUT both sides have to grow up and stop the "blame game." On the day of the so-called incident, Bagdon came looking for trouble and where it took place was during a sporting event - he had no reason to be there. The incident was blown out of proportion and I don't believe it needed to be turned into an article in the newspaper.
DR- Mokena February 22, 2012 at 04:25 pm
The best league in town is the Mokena Park basketball league where all is fair and the players get equal playing time. Football needs to follow that model.
Mokena mom February 22, 2012 at 04:28 pm
The Mokena Park Basketball league is the best - I agree.
As for the Burros being treated like a Red-Headed Stepchild......(great comment by the way).....every travel baseball team in town, that is not affiliated with the sacred MBSA, is treated the same way, so I totally agree with Pat Patrick on that comment.
Paul Dailing February 22, 2012 at 04:39 pm
Watch the language. The only reason I didn't notice the slur before was because of how poorly you spelled it. The only reason I'm not deleting it now is because other people have already responded to it.
Brush up on the terms of use: http://www.patch.com/terms You agreed to those terms when you signed up for a user account. Keep your word or I will delete your comment and suspend your account. Paul Dailing Editor, Mokena Patch
No Spin Zone February 22, 2012 at 05:42 pm
Mr. Patrick .... you're right on-point..... "nothing in life is equal". I'm amazed at all the stuff coming from the Jr Griffins on how this is all about "equal playing time", "having fun", "doing it for the kids", blah, blah, blah. This is about a group of disgruntled dads that didn't get the coaching position they wanted, didn't get the position they wanted on the board, or their kid didn't get enough playing time. Sure, I want my kid to get playing time and have fun. But let's see how much equal playing time the kids will get with the Jr Griffins and how much fun it will be when they get their heads kicked in every weekend by teams that are out to win. Go ahead and drink their kool-aid folks. Life is going to be merry!
Bill Williams February 22, 2012 at 07:28 pm
I am curious as to what language and slurs were used by Pat Patrick that offended Paul Darling? Yet nothing was said about "Johnny on the spot" personally attacking Pat with his comments. You have to love editors and Censorship, a typical attack on our First Amendment freedoms. As for the Burros and Dennis Bagdon (the park district) and that is what this about, not the kids, he has been looking for this opportunity for a long time. As for the kids, they are served well by the Burros. If you want to see crazed coaching and managers look at the Mokena Baseball program.
Once a Burro, Always a Burro! February 22, 2012 at 07:37 pm
No reason to be turned into an article? Sure it did, one more way to blast the Burros in order to get someone to sign up for the Jr. Griffins. After all the Burros organization has done for the Park District and the Village of Mokena, a park district employee and village trustee have to stir the pot. It's funny, all the trouble is coming from everyone BUT the Burros and we're still getting blamed for it.
Bill Williams February 22, 2012 at 07:38 pm
You must be kidding.............. If you want to see crazed coaches and managers go to a baseball game. Also a good portion of the coaches are from the Blaze, this means if your kid doesnt play for the Blaze he will end up in the outfield. Also what are we teaching the kids by equal playing time ? Man up with your kid, there are winners and loosers, there are great, good and just OK athletes and thats not a bad thing. It is called reality.
Paul Dailing February 22, 2012 at 08:53 pm
A. How is it censorship if Pat Patrick's comments are still up?
B. The word he used after "metro sexual" is a misspelled version of a common slur against gay people. C. You all agreed to the terms of services when you signed up for the account, so I don't think it's too much to ask to ask a man to abide by rules he agreed to. D. The First Amendment says the government can't abridge the freedom of speech. I'm not the government.
Michelle Bartos February 22, 2012 at 09:30 pm
Ultimately we need a program that makes sure all players are getting better and learning the game. We also need coaches that actually played the game at high school level or above and are coaching for the right reasons. Not so their kids can be put on a false pedistal. The best kids should get the most playing time for the positions they are best at. A good programs goal should be to develop the starting players for the school they feed into. When these kids get to high school, the coaches know the difference between a kid that has talent and one who was pushed though a program by "daddy ball". I'm not convinced the new program is a cure for that in Mokena.
Johnny on the spot February 22, 2012 at 09:41 pm
Dear Mr Williams ,
below please read the code of conduct which applies to coaches and managers as well!!!!!! the comments I made are factual and real I'm sorry Bagdon was correct 100% by having to remove the coach from the park districts fields ,Where does it state any coach or manager can place his hands upon any player in the real world it is caused battery which against a child is a felony ,The next time I ever see this at any game I will be the first to have the police involved !!!!!!!!!
Johnny on the spot February 22, 2012 at 09:42 pm
AS A PARENT OF A BURROS PARTICIPANT, IT IS IMPORTANT THAT YOU UNDERSTAND AND ABIDE BY THE FOLLOWING:
• All players, parents, and fans are to adhere to the rules and regulations of the Mokena Park District in regards to traffic, field usage, and alcohol/tobacco usage. This also applies to other Parks and Facilities that we visit while on the road. • Parents are not allowed on sidelines with players and coaches at anytime during any game. • Parents interfering with practice will be asked to leave the park. • Parents and visitors are to park in designated parking spots only or as directed by a Burros Board member or the visiting town. • All Players, Parents, Fans, and Coaches are to use good sportsmanship and conduct. • If any issues arise during the year that can not be worked out privately with the coach or appropriate Board Member (Athletic Director, Cheer Director, Flag Director), the issue should be immediately brought to the attention of the Grievance Committee. The Grievance Committee process is identified on the Burros web site. The Grievance Committee will review the complaint and determine the best course of action.
Johnny on the spot February 22, 2012 at 09:43 pm
Thank you Paul once again a true leader in getting the word out !!!!!!
Lynn February 22, 2012 at 11:43 pm
How about the adults get OVER THEMSELVES AND THEIR FAILED ATTEMPTS TO BECOME ATHLETIC SUPERSTARS and let the kids be kids and get to play on whatever team they want! All the kids should get equal playing time not just the coaches kid it is ridiculous watching some of these big mouth immature dads on the field. How do you ever expect the kids to learn if they aren't able to play all positions or at least be given a chance? WHY don't the angry dads form their own team and play against each other and have the kids stand on the sidelines to watch how not to play with respect for the game or for other people. Sorry your career in big leagues or NFL didn't pan out its the kids time not yours!
Mokena Parent February 23, 2012 at 02:48 pm
The Burro program has gone downhill. When the Frankfort Falcons started, the Burros lost a lot of kids. Why??? Now the Jr. Griffins are starting up and the Burros are running scared and rightly so. The people running the Burro organization have been running it into the ground. They are attacking everyone associated with the Jr. Griffins, stealing fliers, yelling profanities, etc. Is this the type of behavior parents want running an organization their children are in? What kind of example are they showing these kids? I am so glad there are other options for my kids because I do not want them to be part of the failing, appalling Burro Organization!!!
Michelle Bartos February 23, 2012 at 03:29 pm
Why isn't anyone addressing the root of the problem? The Burros program was brought down by coaches allowing politics to enter the sports arena. If that problem is not solved we will have the same problem with a different name. I have seen many talented kids sit on the bench because their parents aren't a coach, board member or team mom. THAT is appaling.
Mokena mom February 23, 2012 at 04:41 pm
Okay Mokena Mike....your comment about the Burros getting special consideration over the new team is just a joke. Burros does not have every talented player in the area and I have known kids to make East's team by never having played organized football before. So, why don't you just put facts in your comments and cut out the bull. The Land of Burros is not sacred and holy ground and they are not the only ones who can produce someone to play football.
Bill Williams February 23, 2012 at 06:21 pm
The Burro Program has survived for over 49 years. I have seen kids/parent go to other programs only to come back because the grass is not greener. In 49 years you have had a bad coach here and there, is that really a big surprise. Condeming a program and its coaches over one incident last year is the problem.
Bill Williams February 23, 2012 at 06:35 pm
Hey Johnny on the spot no one is disputing that the incident in question. It is the condemning of the Burros as an organization that is sophomoric, which means conceited and overconfident of knowledge but poorly informed and immature.
The Marshall February 23, 2012 at 07:02 pm
1- If there is nothing political or self-serving about this venture then why is there a very huge banner promoting the JR Griffins on the wire silo at the Yunker farm which is Park District Property, should it not be on the Parks Marquee instead?? 2-Why are all these comments both pro and con all coming from adults, it is a kids game and not one youngster has commented, which shows this is not about the kids it is all about adult EGO, shame on all of you who have chosen to use bigoted and biased remarks about this issue, what a beautiful example you are instilling in your children, and yes too many of you are trying to relive your lives through your children. Grow up, there is room in all our communities for growth and expansion, quit fighting, name calling and work together for the common cause, GOOD KIDS & SPORTSMANSHIP.
One for All February 23, 2012 at 07:14 pm
Reading through all these comments just makes me want to laugh. Look at the surrounding towns. Many have more than one football team and they are doing just fine. What difference does it make if Mokena has 1,2, or 10 football teams? Those that want to join Burros, will do just that, and the same can be said for Jr. Griffins.
As for equal play time, just give it up! Unless you are playing on some intramural-type team, it's not going to happen. No matter where you go, the better players are going to play more, and rightly so. The goal ultimate goal of a team is to win, after all. Coach's kids will always get special treatment. Please name me a team where this does not happen? Not saying it's fair, and shame on those coaches who play that game, but it's the way of the world of sports, and ultimately, a life lesson for all kids involved. If Jr. Griffin's goal is to break that cycle, then more power to them. Can Burros coaches look in the mirror and HONESTLY see what kind of coach they are, and what they do, and how their behavior affects ALL children whom they coach, and be happy with what they see? Why not put YOUR best foot forward as an adult to teach your child values of sportsmanship so they can make the best decisions, moving forward into adulthood?
One for All February 23, 2012 at 07:17 pm
And by the way, we have been part of Burros for 7 years. Good or bad, the kids loved the sport and didn't want to go elsewhere, by their choice. And no, they are not superstars on their team, just regular kids who love to play.
carole February 23, 2012 at 09:44 pm
I just wonder how they can get all of those teams in the park at once. It is crowded enough as is not to mention relocating to avoid the mud and tearing up the field.
carole February 25, 2012 at 03:09 pm
It is not the games it is the practice that is a concern. Someone from the park district needs to look at the logistics of this if they think we can all practice at the same fields at once. Teams are jockeyed around enough for practice as it is due to overcrowding in the park. Yes Mokena Park District you are the facilitator but it seems as if you are not on top of things if you feel that we can all practice at the same fields at the same time.
Rich Gosinya March 2, 2012 at 03:54 pm
I'm starting new team called the Donkeys. Most of you parents can join as most of you are asses! It's kids football! It's not life or death. So sad that the parents get so whipped up into a frenzy over kiddie football when most of the time the kids could care less and only act like they care because they don't want to disappoint their parents. Pretty sad testament of what your community stands for!
Mokena Sports Mom March 4, 2012 at 04:31 am
What a bunch of fools...we left the burros after five seasons with our son six years ago and rightfully so. When it came time for my middle child to play, we selected the Falcons, and were very pleased with the coaching staff at the Varsity Level. Now that my daughter wants to cheer, no way I'd consider either Mokena team, and I am a Mokena resident!! Bottom line is people, when it comes time to play at East, doesn't matter who your daddy is!
carole March 4, 2012 at 07:51 pm
Isn't this funny but I have heard the same things about the Frankfort Falcons. Just sign your child up for a football/cheering program (if they want) and sign yourself up as a volunteer coach. You get there at practice EVERY night and help these young players learn. There are plenty of things to do...even if you don't have much experience in football/cheerleading. We know plenty of you have experience in whining. If you were there you could see what is going on instead of rumors. If your son or daughter does not want to sign up...that's all right. It's no big deal! You don't have to make excuses. Good luck to the Jr. Griffins and the Burros. It is a game where many children and parents grow up!!
CV October 13, 2012 at 07:29 pm
Love the comment mokena sports mom. I am a Frankfort resident and my son pkayed for the wildcats for 2 years and its all about daddy ball in Frankfort square. They had like 35 kids on the widgets the first year and the same for the pee wees the second yr. But only let like 15 kids play on Saturdays. They have a pact between the coaches that there kids will start. Regardless of talent level. we chose the Jr Griffins this yr so our son could get alot of play time. Thats what its all about for this level. And your right. It doesnt matter what your last name is when u get to east.
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